
Day 11 of #31DaysOfRomance
🎶 Put some slick tunes on and cook dinner together. 🍽️

🎶 Put some slick tunes on and cook dinner together. 🍽️

Share a fear you have about your relationship with your partner over a cup of coffee. ☕☕

Give each other a back or foot massage. 🤲🕯️
Youtube has an abundance of ‘How To Videos’ for any kind of massage.
Start with a simple, warm footbath with ingredients of your choice.
Place a pillow on your lap and cover it with a soft towel. After drying your partner’s feet, place one foot at a time on the pillow. Use one hand to hold his/her foot by the heel, and use your other hand to gently rotate the foot in a clockwise circle motion three times and in a counterclockwise circle motion three times. Rotate each toe in the same manner. This helps to warm up the feet and get the blood circulating through the toes and ankles. Repeat on the other foot.
Place some foot cream, massage oil or coconut oil into your thumbs and then place each on the center of his/her foot arch, directly below the ball of the foot. With light pressure, rub your thumbs in small circles, one going clockwise, the other going counterclockwise. Do this stress-melting arch technique for about 30 seconds to a minute to help melt away the stresses of the day. Follow up by applying more lotion or oil to your hands and then walking your thumbs up and down the entire length of the foot, using firm pressure. Then slide your thumbs up and down the length of the foot. Do this for several minutes, or for as much time as you can handle without getting tired.
Give each and every toe on the foot a light squeeze with your thumb and index finger, and then use your thumbs to make small clockwise or counterclockwise circles just beneath each toe. Give each toe about 15 seconds of this relaxing treatment to help reduce pressure in the feet and toes.
Starting at the ball of the foot, use your thumbs to make small circles (one thumb going clockwise, the other going counterclockwise) all the way up and down the length of the sole, adding extra pressure as you near the heel. Do this for several minutes, or as long as you can last without getting too tired.
Either use your thumb and forefinger to gently squeeze the hollow area below the ankle for several seconds, or use your fingers to gently rub the Achilles tendon (the springy band of tissue that runs from the heel and ankle up through the calf muscles of the leg). Your partner may give you extra thanks if you choose to do both. After all, this is supposed to be the world’s most pain-relieving, stress-reducing, toe-curling, pleasurable foot massage ever. It’s up to you to make it that way!
– All credit for these tips / steps goes to Footfiles –

👄 Ask your partner about their day and genuinely listen. 👂


Give your partner a compliment. 😍
Whether it’s about something specific they do, a boost of encouragement or a naughty intimate reminder, they’re sure to appreciate it. 😏

They deserve to be treated every once in a while, so why not take time today to make your partners favourite dessert. 🍦🍩🍪🍰🥧🍮

Fit in a 5-minute hug today.![]()
Hugging increases levels of the “love hormone” oxytocin, which is beneficial for stress levels, heart health, and more… ![]()


Thank your partner for something specific today,
no matter how big or small.
Showing gratitude can mean so much more to those close to us
and can improve their entire mood.